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“Are U Too Holy?, That U Fogot About Purpose?”

Churches are getting too religious or too holy? Or What?

In my days, when going to church most of the stuff thats going on now was not allowed. And folks wondering why people come and go, but go fastsr then coming.

Back then in the 80′-90’s, folks wouldn’t dare walk around when praying was going on, unless it was a bathroom call but even then you had to get promission and be escorted.

They wouldn’t let folks walk in during this time if they were late. Or walk across the pullpit when the man of God was preaching. No no..

Women were taught how to hug men properly. Not like some women do today, by giving that fake hug with their breast all over a man and possibly someone’s husband. And short skirts was a no, no. We had to be covered specially when sitting down. Back then they didn’t wear too many short skirts or short dresses to church.

When a child interrupts services, it was time to get up and take them out, or to the bathroom immediately.

No chewing gum. No talking to each other when someone was speaking.

I know you saying, “Come as you are.” True, but not come disrespectful. Or disrespecting the Lords house. Even Jesus got angry when the church was doing money changes and animal selling.

Folks exchanging numbers of the opposites sex when they are married to someone else, remember the flesh is weak and you are not God.

Cut it out!!

Ladies, we all know better even if you weren’t taught the right way. You know how to dress the part when you want what you want, no excuses.

Job interviews, weddings, proms, dates and to the clubs. Yes, clubs. Don’t act to holy now and pretend some don’t go…

Stop half dressing to so the preacher and all the rest of the men don’t get distracted. they came foe the word. Well, at least some men do.  And some women wonder why you can’t find a good man.

My opinion, it starts with us. I mean you shouldn’t even go to your girlfriend’s house around her man half dressed.

Men are visual and women are emotional, doesn’t it say a man that finds a wife, and I mean wife. That he finds a good thing.

Trust me, most men already sized you up.  And know their intent. So, stop playing yourself.

And men that work in the church, stop using your power to get as many women as you can to satisfy your flesh. Did you forget about burning in hell?

Read up on Jezebel Spirit. It can be man or woman.

Yes, God has forgivening us for ours sins but to willfully sin,…SMH

I hope you have a hidden bucket of water for life in hell stored up because that fire your about to catch is forever!

What about folks using church to make a name for themselves? Now, I know God didn’t call everyone to lead, just so you can turn around and leave the church to get your own in a few months? God will bless you from the pupil to the congregation. And if we all spreaded out, there will be a lot empty chairs in church.

Some folks take things too far. We all can’t be leaders in the church there has to be some other help for the people besides the Man of God. You can reach people just by LOVE.

Some church folks become too religious and forgot about the purpose of why God said to go to church to whorship and praise with congregation.

Some some so called too holy folks are too busy trying to save themselves and forgot about the book of Works, where is your works in life for God?

I believe, God want us to just love each other. And to do this is, to love Him.

Jesus said, if I be lifted up, I will draw all men unto me. But some folks knocking people down like Mike Tyson with their words and gestures in church.

God is Love,

What about the support the Man of God who ordained or elected you to be ordained?

Aren’t we suppose to help build His house and then by order move on? I seen folks stick around for years, old and gray with one Man of God.

I am just saying,

Some folks get saved and then want to preach, lay hands and still can’t lift a finger to help or get alone with their own family, people in the church or people who are not saved and want to be.

The too holy, that feel like someone isn’t holy enough to be around them? but you want to preach?

God hears a sinner’s prayer before He will hear yours because you should no better!

How can they build their own congregation? or church? when they’ve pushed people away before you even build a church?

Some church folks stir you up and down because you are a stranger to the church. The first thing they assume is that you don’t know God!

Wow…here comes judgement time…

No one can love or be as humbled as God, but God tells us to strive to be like Jesus.

My opinion only, here are some things that may please God,

Be humbled and sit down. Go back to those days of integrity and respect for one another and self. Speak kind always for there is power in the tongue.

Think about when someone talked bad to your mom or children, and you were ready to fight.

Well, thats someones child or mom too. And you don’t know if a person wanted to began a new life or end their life.

So, your next visit to church, please unroll your seelves and remember why you came to church.

Follow the man of God’s lead. He will tell you when to stand, sit, pray, etc…

Remember you are doing this for God so, put some classy clothes on, like your going to the, Franky Beverley & The Maze Show and show up and show out for God and the Man of God!!

Amen!

Lashon G.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Cheating is Cheating, and Really Cheating You!

 

I think cheating can be avoided but if not, it can lead to a whole bunch of insecurities, lost and hurt people.

My opinion only…

Question? Why cheat?

Most cheaters find excuses other than the deep routed reasons as to why they are cheating or have cheated.

Some think they know why they do and are convinced that it is justified while others say they don’t know why…hummm?

I rather go with, ” I don’t know why.” Because it’s true that most of us don’t know why.

Well, it may be a fact that most people haven’t taken the time to get to know themsleves, needs and wants. Unless there is some other realitic reasons for doing so. And there maybe in some cases. And if it is a reason justified then it isn’t cheating.

Most just go on feelings at the time and react! Bam! And then asked the question after 30 seconds or minutes, ” Why did I do that?”

By this time its too late to take it back, just pray you it don’t get found about later on!

Well, in my opinion only,

I think most of this could be avoided if there was a selfie check!

Not a Picture! You don’t get off that easy! SHM…

Lets keep it real, or 💯as some would say. It doesn’t matter just say it.

Truth is, people know what they want from your partner or hookups(others). What you like and what want from their partners?

And the grand, master, slam, dunk, answer to all relationships is communicating the right way!

Wether your a believer or not. Yes, I said not!

The good, bad and the ugly knows what they want from a person from first encounters.

They know if it’s a one, stop, drop and roll, or take one piece of your belongings to each other’s places bit by bit! Lol…

Anyway,

back to the reason why folks shouldn’t be praying to God to about a lie that you could have avoided, if you learn how to open your mouth and, ” Say, So!” Like the song by India Ire. Tell her or him. Talk about it.

Or you try finding what you like and if its hard to find, stay singlely, truthful! I just made that up…lol

What I mean they singlely truthful is letting others know what you want from them…only you know deep doen inside what you want or need.

It shouldn’t be that hard because some women are easy like the song says, “Easy Like Sunday Morning.” by Lionel Richie.

Sorry Ladies….Good, bad and the ugly truth, I said!

And although, the average man’s life, thoughts and beings have sung or still singing that old Dave Hollister’s song, ” One Women’s Man.” This all can change too. I hope.

The drama starts by the time the average person been through hurt from dishonesty the get backs, revenge and heartlessness sets in.

Now we have hurt, broken people walking around angry and lost with revenge and confusion in their hearts. And the pqin may be unbarrable to some so,

Instead of taking time to heal, most feel the need to be with someone to complete themselves and want to jump back into another relationship

“How Can You Mend a Broken Heart?” sung by Al Green.

Until people learn how to master communicating, guess what?

You may be next! And so on and on. A vicious cycle.

Let’s start the change. Let us  Talk!

Be blessed,

Kings & Queens.

Lashon G.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Stop Getting Scammed To Look Pretty, Women!

Women, we all know how important it is to have a great hair when we are going out and especially with our man!

We have to make good choices from the styles to quality, in order to get that look that makes us pop!

There is nothing worst than having an awful hair style and your outfit is fabulous! No, no!

So, what do we do?

We start planning for the event to make sure we get it right. And waht about just everyday life? like, going to work daily and meeting friends on a girls day out?

Well, some of us don’t want to be disappointed at all for this makes us a little uncomfortable.

Today, I desided to speak my mind about being scammed out of my planned hair do.

I ordered from Ebay for a full lace front, straight hair wig.

I order off Ebay all the time. In fact, I use to advertise for Ebay.

Although, Ebay will help you get your money back if your within the guide lines some sellers will still try to scam you.

Back to what happened.

I ordered what I thought was the right hair but I knew it wasn’t. Forst sign of the wrong one was the fact that it was curly and I had ordered straight hair.

After I had waited a while for it to arrive, I was desperate and had no choice but to wear it. It was last minute and I thought it looked good.

So, why not give it a try. It was curly not straight and not a full lace. I figured that if it was good quailty I would keep it but let the seller know about the misstakes before I order again.

After wearing for almost two weeks it matted up and I am not able to comb threw it at all.

I went to school for hair, so I do know hair. This is plastic mixed with human hair.

This seller is not trying to refund or help at all.

Never oreder from: ” uk-aac.bakery” this is the seller ID off Ebay. Hair Png.

If you want more details please reply and I will send photos and more information.

Cheers!

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Ugly Stare!

Looking around me and finding ugly stares from some people I don’t even know!

Trying to be me is very hard to do because some folks make me act ugly. For example; those that look at you and don’t speak but frown. I wonder if they realize it?

Have you ever had someone stare you down from a far, and you get closer they turn their head instead of being polite and speaking?

I get this all the time! Sometimes speak and they don’t say a word back, do I lay down and cry?

Nope, I pray for them because they may need it. because I don’t know if they are shocked because I am attractive looking to them, if I look familiar to them or they just ignorant?

These type of stares doesn’t need that much attention although it’s rude not to atleast say hello!

I just may say something like,

” Lord, I don’t know what they need but helped them out and I hope I didn’t do anything to them in the past and they want revenge! ” Lol..

What about when your standing in a very long line in a store, and the cashier already sized you up before you reached the counter?

This happens to me all the time. And I didn’t do anything different than the customer ahead of me yet still, I get the mug shot face as if I just called them the “B” word or I told them that they suck at customer service.

Now,  this makes me act ugly and I may begin to thinking those things or names about them.

When all I wanted was the same respect that the person or persons ahead of me got when they reached the cashier, but instead I get that nasty taste in the mouth look, silence one eyebrow up!

Why?

Bacause I am blessed! Sorry that I don’t look like what I been through! Glory to God!

Inspite of all we try to treat people they way God treats us. I read that somewhere and it helped me out alot instead of allowing someone to get to you and you being out of character, for this isn’t pleasing to God.

I am a work in progress

Have a blessed Day!

Lashon G.

 

 

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