I think cheating can be avoided but if not, it can lead to a whole bunch of insecurities, lost and hurt people.
My opinion only…
Question? Why cheat?
Most cheaters find excuses other than the deep routed reasons as to why they are cheating or have cheated.
Some think they know why they do and are convinced that it is justified while others say they don’t know why…hummm?
I rather go with, ” I don’t know why.” Because it’s true that most of us don’t know why.
Well, it may be a fact that most people haven’t taken the time to get to know themsleves, needs and wants. Unless there is some other realitic reasons for doing so. And there maybe in some cases. And if it is a reason justified then it isn’t cheating.
Most just go on feelings at the time and react! Bam! And then asked the question after 30 seconds or minutes, ” Why did I do that?”
By this time its too late to take it back, just pray you it don’t get found about later on!
Well, in my opinion only,
I think most of this could be avoided if there was a selfie check!
Not a Picture! You don’t get off that easy! SHM…
Lets keep it real, or 💯as some would say. It doesn’t matter just say it.
Truth is, people know what they want from your partner or hookups(others). What you like and what want from their partners?
And the grand, master, slam, dunk, answer to all relationships is communicating the right way!
Wether your a believer or not. Yes, I said not!
The good, bad and the ugly knows what they want from a person from first encounters.
They know if it’s a one, stop, drop and roll, or take one piece of your belongings to each other’s places bit by bit! Lol…
Anyway,
back to the reason why folks shouldn’t be praying to God to about a lie that you could have avoided, if you learn how to open your mouth and, ” Say, So!” Like the song by India Ire. Tell her or him. Talk about it.
Or you try finding what you like and if its hard to find, stay singlely, truthful! I just made that up…lol
What I mean they singlely truthful is letting others know what you want from them…only you know deep doen inside what you want or need.
It shouldn’t be that hard because some women are easy like the song says, “Easy Like Sunday Morning.” by Lionel Richie.
Sorry Ladies….Good, bad and the ugly truth, I said!
And although, the average man’s life, thoughts and beings have sung or still singing that old Dave Hollister’s song, ” One Women’s Man.” This all can change too. I hope.
The drama starts by the time the average person been through hurt from dishonesty the get backs, revenge and heartlessness sets in.
Now we have hurt, broken people walking around angry and lost with revenge and confusion in their hearts. And the pqin may be unbarrable to some so,
Instead of taking time to heal, most feel the need to be with someone to complete themselves and want to jump back into another relationship
“How Can You Mend a Broken Heart?” sung by Al Green.
Until people learn how to master communicating, guess what?
You may be next! And so on and on. A vicious cycle.
Let’s start the change. Let us Talk!
Be blessed,
Kings & Queens.
Lashon G.
